The first few moments of falling in love are magical. There come the butterflies, the can’t-sleep feelings, and the mystery that’s wrapped around a new relationship. But when things get old and your love becomes routinary, you may be probably wondering how you can make him fall for you again.

However, falling in love is spontaneous. Staying in love requires effort and commitment.

The work doesn’t get finished overnight, and if you are in a serious relationship, staying in love takes a lifetime of work.

But there are some things you can do to keep the romance alive.

If you are looking for ways to make him fall for you, read further to find out more.

If you are wanting to save your marriage, or relationship for that matter, I recommend looking into this video called “Mend Your Marriage”, which will help you do the step-by-step process on how to fix what’s wrong in your relationship.

Make Him Fall For You Again: 5 Ways

1. Avoid the petty irritations and arguments

As women, we tend to be irritated with the little things. Dirty laundry, unwashed dishes, and other annoying things that may lead to a nag-fest must be completely avoided.

Your man didn’t get attracted to you because you’re a nagging mom.

He also didn’t fall for you because you keep on bickering with how the toilet seat is up.

If the dishes are unwashed and you’re in the sink, just wash them. If the toilet seat is up, put it down.

There are some things worth fighting for, but petty irritations are not part of that.

Ignite the romance in your relationship, and make him fall for you by letting go of these things. If you must remind him, a gentle, yet serious reminder will do to help the situation. Nagging certainly won’t help.

2. Take care of yourself

There’s a truth behind men telling us “I love you just the way you are”.

However, a way to show your love to him is showing that you also love yourself. This means you’re taking care of yourself so you will remain healthy and attractive for him.

Now, I know feminists will start pointing out that we are free to look what we look like. If independence is your goal, then so be it.

But attraction doesn’t work that way. A part of the romance that started your relationship in the first place is the fact that he was physically attracted to you in the very beginning.

So why would you want to remove that in the equation? I’m not trying to say go all out in all possible instances.

I’m just saying it doesn’t hurt to dress up and look good for your loved one because it shows that you care enough about what he thinks of you.

Just like how we take care of our homes and precious material things for the people we love, we also do the same to our bodies. Eating right, incorporating a fitness program into your schedule and dolling up once in a while can make him fall for you again.

3. Skip the routine and try new things

If your idea of date night is always Netflix and chill, it’s a sure formula for your relationship to fizzle out. Fun is an important element in the relationship.

Even if you think your partner may not be interested in trying new things, or you yourself are scared to do it, then nothing will really change.

You can’t expect things to have different results when you keep on doing the same things.

So to keep the romance alive, and to make him fall for you again, maybe you should consider going on a fun date.

How about going to a starry night picnic? Or a bowling alley just for fun? There’s a lot of ideas you can do or research some date ideas that will pull you out the vortex of routine.

Routine is the killer of spontaneity and fun in your relationship. It’s good to have it, but it’s good to escape from it once in a while.

4. Speak his love language

You may be wondering why you seem to do everything but he doesn’t appear to pay attention to you.

It could possibly be that you’re missing out an important piece of the puzzle.

Could you be avoiding to speak his love language? Love language stands for different things that your man may like as a way to feel loved. It could be in forms such as time, acts of service, physical touch, gifts, among others.

You might be trying to give him gifts but all he really wants is time with you.

Or you could be trying to serve him by keeping your house neat and tidy, but all he wants is hugs and kisses from you.

Make sure not to miss your partner’s love language by trying to dig deeper into what brings him joy in your relationship.

5. Praying for your relationship

An advice that I will never get tired of giving, but you should always include your relationship in your prayers!

God is the Author of romance. He is the Author of relationships. He longs to give counsel to you and your man, and as long as He is at the center, your love life will always be guided by Him.

God desires that you have the best kind of relationship with your partner, so He wants you to come to Him for help in whatever matter you are facing.

Whether it’s a problem, or simply just wishing to make him fall for you again, everything is possible as long as you trust Him.

Make Him Fall For You: Do Something

Be sure to do these tips, and see how things change for you and your partner. If you are wanting to save your marriage, or relationship for that matter, I recommend looking into this video called “Mend Your Marriage”, which will help you do the step-by-step process on how to fix what’s wrong in your relationship.

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